Monday, June 27, 2011

Tommy Teague ~ beloved pastor/treasured friend



Early Thursday, June 23, we received news that Tommy had unexpectedly passed from this life to eternity, on his 58th birthday while in Israel leading a group from our church on a tour of the Holy Land.

As our pastor and friend for the last 13 years, we shared in many life-changing events. Two of the three Teague children were the same age as our boys. Our Ryan and their Jonathan were both born Aug 13, 1980; while their Julie and our Aaron were best buds from 8th grade on --going off to college together and remaining close to this day.

We have vivid memories of Tommy and Rita being with us at Harris Hospital Trauma ICU as we awaited word on Aaron's condition following his tragic accident; then returning at midnight after getting the youth off to camp earlier that evening, in order to spend some time alone with us, praying over us and seeing to our needs. Their encouragement and support throughout Aaron's lengthy recovery was invaluable.

Tommy was an incredible mentor/spiritual adviser for Aaron throughout his high school and college years and especially over the last few years as life handed him some pretty hard blows. Aaron never doubted that Tommy loved him unconditionally and was only a phone call away.

Though Ryan was already headed off to college when Tommy came as our pastor; Tommy became a rock to him as well. Throughout the last few years in particular, they formed a bond as Tommy made himself available to help Ryan navigate the seas of change taking place in his life. He also provided support in joyous times by being Ryan and Stacee's premarital counselor and officiant at their wedding.

Tommy was at my side when doctor's called me in to that dreaded family conference room to inform me that, despite all their efforts, my sweet husband would not survive the trauma his body had endured over the last month. I remember many hospital visits from Tommy and Rita as they remained close at hand praying fervently that God would preserve Ron's life as, over many months, battle was waged! From that time to the present, they have been a constant source of encouragement and strength as we have learned to live in a new normal.

We had the honor of working on staff with Tommy at Children's Camp for many years and he and Rita even entrusted us with the furtherance of each of their daughters' spiritual growth as we served them in various areas of the the youth department, as well as tried to help flesh out faith together through Senior Bible Study.

Tommy loved His Lord and was passionate about sharing this love. He counted it a great joy to take groups to Israel to walk the roads Jesus had walked and I think it is so appropriate that he went to sleep after a day spent traveling these same paths and woke up in Heaven to walk the streets of Glory with Him.

We count it a great honor to have done life together...to have known and loved and to have been known and loved by this precious man! Thank you, Tommy, for your steadfast, faithful legacy of love, compassion, integrity, humility, and your unfailing passion for those things the Father is passionate about. We are but one of many who recount stories of your faithfulness to the people God entrusted to your care.

Please pray for Tommy's family: wife, Rita; daughters Julie and Joy; son, Jonathan, and wife Michelle; along with his three precious granddaughters.

We also ask you to pray for his extended family, friends and our church family. This has come as a tremendous shock to so many people. And, as you can imagine, the fact that his death took place in a foreign country has greatly complicated things causing the family to have to wade through alot of red tape in making of arrangements; compounding their grief. They are hoping his body will be home in the States on Monday allowing the funeral to take place on Thursday.

We love you, Tommy; you are already greatly missed!

Friday, June 17, 2011

10 years

"I am trusting You, O Lord, saying, 'You are my God!' My future is in Your hands." Psalm 31:14-15a



"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

Monday, June 13, 2011

San Francisco ~

What a great vacation! Worth every minute of detailed preparation for travel with my high medical needs guy. Staying at Embassy Suites is always such a treat. Having the two rooms allows Ron to get the sleep he needs, while allowing me to be up and about in the living area without disturbing him. It also gives us the added room we need for all his medical supplies; as well as a refrigerator for TPN storage. Ron did well; a couple of rough nights and one yakking episode but otherwise well. Fortunately, though we had a lot we wanted to do, we were on no timetable, making it easy to accommodate whatever pace he needed.

Thanks to those of you who responded to my request for suggested things to do while in San Francisco; I think we did just about ALL of them!

amazing audio tour of Alcatraz


strolling the quaint streets of Sausalito

trip to Muir Woods to see the giant redwoods



watch the sea lions just off Pier 39 and browse the shops there
pedicab along Fisherman’s Wharf
several trips down Lombard (crookedest) street



Kodak moment in front of the Painted Ladies
ride the cable cars (while singing Rice-A-Roni song, of course!)
yummy splurge at Scoma’s restaurant on Fisherman’s Wharf
Sunset Cruise on the Bay featuring close-up look at Golden Gate Bridge


visit several vineyards in Napa Valley
Rubicon Estates Vineyard


But, I must say, my favorite was experiencing Pebble Beach with my hubby! A bittersweet time for him, finally seeing his dream course in person; yet not being physically able to play it. On the advice of a friend, I explained Ron’s condition to those in the Pro Shop and they graciously allowed us to rent a cart and drive the entire course! It was fabulous! Just wish it had been a clear day. Only 2 out of our 6 days did we have blue skies and sunshine. The weather was refreshingly cool; in fact it got downright cold at times! The highest temp while we were there was 60.








It was so fun to have our Mavericks playing three nights that week. It made it easy to want to end the day early enough to be back to our hotel in time for tip off, which helped keep Ron from overexerting.

The Texas heat was pretty hard on Ron when we returned and he almost immediately began showing signs of dehydration. Fortunately, we were able to catch it quickly and get fluid in TPN increased before things got bad.

Of course, coming home to these sweet faces made returning to the heat much more bearable!

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Oh boy...

...it's a boy!!!!!

We got the call today, as we were on the course at Pebble Beach! Evidently our "proud" little one showed off, sonogram shows 100% that it's a boy!!! Our little guy's due date is October 31 and everything is measuring as it should.

Very proud Mama and Daddy (and Grammie and Papa!). Papa was so excited, he had to buy his grandson his first golf ball while at his dream course, so sweet!




Can't wait to welcome our new little guy to the family. And Papa can't wait to introduce him to his favorite game!

"Sons are a heritage from the Lord, children a reward from Him." Psalm 127:3

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Whew! Nothing like spontaniety!

It's been wild and woolly around here! Don't worry, not medically; Ron's been fairly stable the last 6 weeks or so! Good thing, since end of school year is always super busy; and this year was no exception!

Between semester exams, preparing work for summer school, a great family celebration of Grandma Nordell's 92nd birthday, graduation parties, wedding showers, etc., I feel I hardly saw my hubby the last week or so of school, except when I fell into bed at night!

In the midst of the fray, our 32nd anniversary came and went...I worked late, had a doctor appt after work, our department hosted a graduation party for two of our students but finally made it home just in time to give my sweetie a kiss and wish him a happy anniversary! Woo hoo!!!

Hallelujah summer officially began for me Sunday, May 30!

The big news around here is, we are always on the look out to do something special for our anniversary, and that opportunity arrived about 10 days ago. American Airlines had been celebrating their 30 year anniversary (just babies compared to us, haha!) and were running different specials each day...I happened upon the day they were having a GREAT discount on all vacation packages using frequent flier miles.

So....we are leaving bright and early Sunday (yes, tomorrow!) morning for San Francisco! We are super, super excited! God promises to work all things together for good, and one good thing that has come out of Ron's extensive medical bills is the miles we keep earning! Our airfare, hotel and car rental have ALL been covered by miles, thus far the cost to us has been a total of $85! The rest of the trip will be financed by the unexpected escrow overage check we recently received, as well as an anonymous gift Ron found in his Bible last month...thanks anonymous; what a blessing you are!!!

This entire week has been spent making all the necessary medical arrangements needed for travel for Ron. We have names of hospitals to contact in case of emergency, along with detailed, concise medical history synopsis in case we were to need to go to hospital, as well as name and number of one of Dr. A's med school classmates in Berkley (just across the bay from where we are staying); all medical paperwork in place for airline travel and to be able to pass security and the wheelchair ready to go. We typically have TPN and daily medical supplies shipped when we travel, however our insurance no longer covers this and the cost was going to be $200 (it HAS to be kept refrigerated and weighs around 40 lbs...UGH!); therefore, we have chosen to have it checked in along with our luggage. A major hassle when we get to San Francisco, but we won't have to worry about bringing it back since all the supplies will be used up by then. Praise God, Aaron will be taking us to the airport so he'll do all the luggage and box wrangling when we check in! Thanks, Aaron!!!

We will check our e-mail daily so if you have any fun ideas of things to do....e-mail them to us!!!

We'll take things pretty easy. With the exception of our one booked excursion, we will do things that we can mostly drive around and see. Anything else we have to assure wheelchair accessibility.

The one thing we have booked is a "Jail and Sail"; 90 minute audio walking tour (well walking for me, riding in wheelchair for Ron!) of Alcatraz and then a sunset cruise of the bay.

We hope to drive down Highway 1 to Pebble Beach one day; maybe drive to Napa another day; and Muir woods and Sausalito another day. We'll play each day by ear, seeing how Ron is doing that day. We'll spend mid-morning to afternoon doing the tourist thing and then spend our evenings back at the hotel chillin'. Of course Sunday, Tuesday and Thursday evenings will be spent cheering on our Mavericks!

Please pray for safe travel, as well as a medically uneventful vacation. We could really use a low-stress time of refreshment! It's always a huge step out of my comfort zone to be so far away from our fabulous doctors, hospital and our support group. But I also know how important it is that we put our trust in God, not man. He is with us wherever we are, not just here. And He will supply whatever needs we may have, even in California!!! I have to choose to "be anxious for nothing". It's also imperative that Ron have some semblance of "normal" enjoyment of life and things to look forward to. But I tell ya, it's hard to step out in faith sometimes...even when it's to do fun things!!!

Look forward to sharing great things with you from our visit to Northern California. Will think of you often as we enjoy highs of 60 each day!

It's here!!! Ron tells his story

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